When I talk about relationships, anger, and self esteem in my training seminars I almost always have someone come up to me and say; “Boy I wish my spouse was here to hear this”.
With the divorce in America at an all time high of 50% for first, 67% second and 74% for the third, we need our spouses to listen and listen carefully!
If you don’t take a long hard look at the condition of your relationship you may wind up on the wrong side of these statistics and not only will you and your spouse suffer your children WILL also! If you do have children and are not getting along with each other, you are teaching them how couples act and treat one another!
Stop taking each other for granted and Stop thinking that everything is fine just because you don’t hear your partner complain! Relationships do not fall apart over night, they are like anything else, it sometimes takes years of neglect before the damage becomes evident.
Today; as a matter of fact right now, start examining your relationship and since you may not have asked yourself the following questions let me help you;
- Do you still hold hands when you walk together?
- Do you still hug each other during the day? Do you think of ways to put a smile on their face?
- When was the last time you felt those “Butterflies” when you looked in their eyes?
- When was the last time you wrote a love letter?
Did I stir something up inside of you? If so Good!
If you know the passion has been waning in your relationship do something about it!
If you know someone who needs help in their relationship, Help them.
If it will help, download a copy of A No Nonsense Approach to a Passionate Relationship and send it to them. (Read it yourself first!) It is less than a price of a cup of coffee!
Whatever you do folks! If we really want to be successful in life and if we really want to be a good witness, we need to have our relationships healthy.
I will do my part, please do yours?
Let’s hear your comments!
Make Your Relationship Great!
Bob
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1. Understand that most people don’t intentionally want to upset you. Your loved ones don’t stay awake at night thinking of ways to tick you off. They are human and therefore will say things they don’t mean, not phrase their words properly, forget to do things you’ve asked and even act selfishly from time to time. It doesn’t mean they WANT to give you headache. Sometimes it is our responsibility to understand their weaknesses and help them by holding them accountable, reminding them, improving our communication skills and more importantly forgiving them.
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