Whose Life are You Living?

I have met too many people that are only going through the motions, only existing, living like zombies doing the same things day after day without really living. They mask their emotions with motions of busyness only to wake up one day wishing things were different. They find themselves saying I guess this is the way life really is and they settle. They settle in unsatisfying relationships, unsatisfying careers and in unhealthy bodies. What if they didn’t have to?

What if you discovered that you settled for a life that someone else gave you instead of the life God wanted you to have?

What if you found out that you had gifts and talents trying to burst out of you but you kept pushing them down by conforming to the standards and desires of others?

Your Life is Your Fault!

Achieving success may be simple but it is rarely easy. One of the best but most difficult traits a person can develop is one of personal responsibility. Think of how much you fault other people or circumstances for keeping you from achieving the level of success, health and happiness you desire.

Unless you are willing to stop blaming others for your lack of success you will never achieve it. Blame does nothing to help you move forward and everything to justify staying in your present condition.
You may not have been responsible for some of the events you have experienced, but how you respond during and especially after the event is entirely on your shoulders.

Learn how to say “No”

If you want to become as productive as possible and become a master at managing your tasks you must also become a master at saying no.

Here are 4 simple steps that will help you say no without sounding offensive.